The purpose for writing this book is to provoke individuals in relationships to think farther than their desires. By presenting areas of communication breakdown, in which we tend to become combative when confronted with the issues of various breakdown or weakness in our families units, we can reconcile these issues by changing former ways of communication. Breakdowns in family and relationships lead to breakdowns in our societies and communities. Genesis chapter 1 reveals the step by step plan for a one on one relationship filled with guidance from God concerning the choosing of our mates as well as how you and your mate should develop and grow together in the relationship. Let us all keep in mind we all have room for change, with the understanding that we all have work to do and there should be no reason to blame others for their faults and flaws. God looked beyond our faults and saw our needs. The scriptures listed in the following pages have been added as tools to help change the mind of the readers, to encourage and empower families, our environment and even history.